Bob is a Presbyterian minister from the Philippines. Some call him a "natural-born" pastor. To speak with him is to know that you have been with a believer.
One day, on his way to the pulpit to preach, he stopped near his wife and picked up his 10-month-old daughter. Carrying her in his arms, he stepped up to the podium and began his sermon. At first the little girl stared wide-eyed at the people before her, but soon she reached out and grabbed her dad's tie, and put it in her mouth. Everyone laughed. Pastor Bob freed his tie and put it back in his suit, and continued his sermon.
His tiny daughter then grabbed his glasses and pulled them off. People chuckled. Retrieving his glasses, Pastor Bob put them back in place and kissed his daughter. Then he continued to preach. After a minute or so, the little girl reached out and grabbed him by the nose! Everyone, including Pastor Bob, broke out in laughter.
When it finally became still, Pastor Bob said to the congregation, "Is there anything that she could do that you could not forgive her for?" People began to nod, thinking of their own children and grandchildren.
"And when does that end?" Pastor Bob continued. "At 3? At 15? At 30? How old does someone have to be before you forget that everyone is a child of God?"
The audience fell totally silent. You could hear a pin drop.
Very softly the pastor asked, "And when did you forget that you too are a child of God?"
Does God love us less than we love our children? Is a 3-year-old's continuation as part of the family conditional upon never making a mess? Conditional on earning his or her keep? Do we think God is a poorer parent than most of us? Do we feel inside that we could never be good enough to merit His acceptance and favor? Consciously, or unconsciously, we often operate from a fear-driven covenant with God, many of our behaviors and relationships motivated by an effort to avoid His judgment.
Many of us strive fearfully to deserve God's love. We are reluctant to believe that we belong. Perhaps that is the cause of most of our stress. Maybe we need to become like children again to know just how much God loves us.
Lord, thank You for accepting me as part of Your family in Christ. Thank You for the many tokens of love You have placed in the world around me. I will rest in Your love today.